dress and grooming guidelines get a facelift.

Have you seen the new Dress and Grooming Guidelines released by the church in June 2013? A few things have changed for the guys (khakis, what?), but it's pretty much the same for the girls since the previous changes in 2010 that included knee length skirts, more colors, and--hallelujah--optional nylons. However, the layout, design, and pictures make it much more fun  than ever before to figure out what's mission approps.

Here it is: https://missionary.lds.org/dress-grooming/sister

Still, lots of questions remain. A big one: where do I find these clothes? News flash: Forever 21, H&M, and the rest of your go-tos probably won't work. Department stores like JC Penney and Macy's will have some options that cover more. This will be especially helpful in warm climates where you won't want to layer to make it modest. Plus, these are likely to be in your hometown so you can try on in store instead of ordering online. The general rule is that you'll have to spend more to get the quality and modesty you need here (note my new found J. Crew obsession), but secondhand stores like Goodwill and DI will have always have good and unique options that often fit your style perfectly. I also love Dress Barn, even though my mom shops there, too. Finally, stores that sell department stores' leftovers like Marshalls and Nordstrom Rack can offer quality, style, and low prices.

A few other things to keep in mind:

1. Your mission president may have his own revised set of dress and grooming rules for your mission, so be sure to check with him before you get too far (for example, my mission required blazers for every meeting).

2. When buying skirts and other pieces, look out for slits, tightness, sheerness, and other things that can make a seemingly modest piece immodest. Skirts should cover the knees even when you're sitting (you might find yourself in homes sitting on those couches that swallow you up, making it super hard to keep the garments covered).

3. Always check for fabric care instructions. You probably don't want to spend your time and money dry cleaning on the mish.

4. If you're in a cold climate, don't buy long garments. They are the worst. Just buy regular long underwear to go over your garments. I really liked all my Under Armour pieces.

Hope that helps!

L